This week Leslie Jordan, the actor, comedian, writer, and singer, of “Will and Grace” fame, passed away. I was saddened because Leslie was truly a light of joy and happiness. Although obviously I had never met him, I always loved the positive way he looked at life. As a 4’11” gay, recovering alcoholic, his lifeContinue reading “Choosing to be happy…………..”
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No need to explain……………..
I recently had someone say something that threw me off guard. I started to explain myself to this person who truthfully had no place in my life and stopped myself. I did not need to justify or explain myself to this person who was totally inconsequential in my life. This was not always the case.Continue reading “No need to explain……………..”
Life in the shadow
Do you ever hear someone say something and it hits you so hard that you can’t stop thinking about it? I follow this amazing content creator @bookshelfbitch on Instagram and Tiktok. She recently was going to a Broadway show and wore this beautiful dress that she would have never worn a few years back because sheContinue reading “Life in the shadow”
The Gossiper
I heard this saying, “once you start defending or explaining your side of the story, you have already lost the argument.” You are already on the defense and that is not a great place to be. At that point, most people have already judged the situation and no matter what you say, their mind isContinue reading “The Gossiper”
The other 33%…………………
A while ago I heard someone talk about the people that we have in our lives. 33% are people in our close circle: close friends and family, people who love us and we love them unconditionally. The second 33% are circumstantial friends: work friends, parents of our children’s friends, or just people we interact with atContinue reading “The other 33%…………………”
In a heartbeat…………..
I remember like it was yesterday. I was not feeling well. Not overly sick but just feeling not quite right and my Doctor sent me for an echo just to be on the safe side. I left my house at 8:00am and was running late, which is the story of my life. I’m pretty sureContinue reading “In a heartbeat…………..”
Kindness in a pandemic of hate
“My religion is very simple. My religion is Kindness” – Dalai Lama I’ve been sad lately. There is so much sadness and hate in the world today. I don’t think I have seen so much hate and anger in all of my 57 years. It breaks my heart. Forgetting about all the “big” things goingContinue reading “Kindness in a pandemic of hate”
None of my business…………..
After a brief hiatus for February break, I am back! After my last blog on minding my own business, a few things popped up reminding me that not only should I keep in my own lane, but also what people think about me is also none of my business. I have to be careful toContinue reading “None of my business…………..”
Minding your own business
Telling someone to mind your own business has such a negative connotation, but in my old age, I’m realizing that it is more about setting boundaries than being negative. Telling someone to mind their own business is not to be harsh but just a gentle reminder to stay in your lane. I’ve been dealing withContinue reading “Minding your own business”
Are you in the picture?????
After a week of recuperating from Covid, I am happy to have the energy to get back to my blog. Many of you who are also my friends on Facebook commented on a post I had put up regarding a ten-year challenge. You were to post a picture of yourself ten years ago and thenContinue reading “Are you in the picture?????”
Accidental Harmony 