I admit it, I like to be liked. I have lived close to my 61 years looking for the approval from others. With that comes seeking the approval of people who don’t deserve having me in their lives. I have sacrificed a great deal trying to get people to like me and I haveContinue reading ““WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM THE FIRST TIME” …MAYA ANGELO”
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HOW DO YOU DESCRIBE YOURSELF?
As I get closer to “that age” of collecting Social Security, I was talking with my husband about starting it as soon as I’m eligible. He, like so many people, tells me to wait until I’m older so I can get the most money possible. But as someone who has had numerous heart surgeries andContinue reading “HOW DO YOU DESCRIBE YOURSELF?”
Giving yourself Grace
To give yourself grace means treating yourself with patience, kindness, and the same compassion you would give to others. As I have shared in the past, I have had some recent health setbacks, and I can tell you I have been extremely hard on myself. I don’t know about you, but I tend to giveContinue reading “Giving yourself Grace”
ARE YOU A SAM OR A JULIE?
Welcome to my first blog post (in a while)! For those who have not followed me before and to returning readers alike, welcome to Accidental Harmony! I started Accidental Harmony as a way to spread grace, optimism, kindness, and gratitude. My life has been nothing short of a roller coaster. “Accidental Harmony” truly encompasses myContinue reading “ARE YOU A SAM OR A JULIE?”
W.A.I.T……………..
I recently heard this expression at an Al Anon meeting. Having been in Al Anon on and off for over twenty years, I was surprised this was the first time I heard it. It stands for Why am I talking. Rather than automatically giving your response in any conversation, pause and actively tell yourself toContinue reading “W.A.I.T……………..”
Illusion of Control……………
Although I hate to admit it, I am a control addict. I try to control whatever situation I find myself in. For example, when I am on a long road trip and someone else is driving, I cannot fall asleep. Even if I am totally exhausted, somehow in my mind, I believe that if anContinue reading “Illusion of Control……………”
Trust
Having trust in a relationship is like a safety net. You feel safe. When that trust is broken, can it ever be repaired? I’m not just talking about the trust between partners, but trust between a friend, a co-worker or a family member. Is it possible to pick up the pieces and rebuilt that trust?Continue reading “Trust”
Breadcrumbing………………
“When someone breadcrumbs you, they string you along by feigning interest in you — whether as a romantic partner, future employee or close friend. They’ll drop small crumbs of attention in the form of an email, date idea or social media interaction without committing to you or your plans. This tantalizing trail keeps you hotContinue reading “Breadcrumbing………………”
The people you meet on vacation………
After being in a funk lately and having serious writer’s block, my mind has been reeling with blog ideas. As today is March 1st, I thought what a perfect day to begin. Though I never finished it and today is March 2nd. However, before I get into my normally deep introspective writing, I thoughtContinue reading “The people you meet on vacation………”
Hanging on through the holidays………..
**This blog was written before the untimely death of DJ Stephen “tWitch” Boss. Please keep in mind that we truly do not know what people are going through, please spread kindness! This is a different type of blog than I usually do. I have not written in the last couple of weeks, I just wasContinue reading “Hanging on through the holidays………..”
