“WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM THE FIRST TIME” …MAYA ANGELO

I admit it, I like to be liked.   I have lived close to my 61 years looking for the approval from others.  With that comes seeking the approval of people who don’t deserve having me in their lives.  I have sacrificed a great deal trying to get people to like me and I haveContinue reading ““WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM THE FIRST TIME” …MAYA ANGELO”

Giving yourself Grace

To give yourself grace means treating yourself with patience, kindness, and the same compassion you would give to others. As I have shared in the past, I have had some recent health setbacks, and I can tell you I have been extremely hard on myself. I don’t know about you, but I tend to giveContinue reading “Giving yourself Grace”

ARE YOU A SAM OR A JULIE?

Welcome to my first blog post (in a while)! For those who have not followed me before and to returning readers alike, welcome to Accidental Harmony! I started Accidental Harmony as a way to spread grace, optimism, kindness, and gratitude. My life has been nothing short of a roller coaster. “Accidental Harmony” truly encompasses myContinue reading “ARE YOU A SAM OR A JULIE?”

Trust

Having trust in a relationship is like a safety net. You feel safe. When that trust is broken, can it ever be repaired? I’m not just talking about the trust between partners, but trust between a friend, a co-worker or a family member. Is it possible to pick up the pieces and rebuilt that trust?Continue reading “Trust”

The people you meet on vacation………

After being in a funk lately and having serious writer’s block, my mind has been reeling with blog ideas.   As today is March 1st, I thought what a perfect day to begin. Though I never finished it and today is March 2nd.  However, before I get into my normally deep introspective writing, I thoughtContinue reading “The people you meet on vacation………”